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We had sex on Tuesday. That was probably wrong. She's worried I'll tell him. LOL how f'ed up is that? I don't want her to feel I'm not interested. If I push her away, will she come back

Did you wear a condom? Because you get an STD or worse and she could get pregnant. Take responsibility for your life, if you aren't currently.

I guess I'm not sure where to start. She wants to be with him more than me, but she isn't convinced she wants to leave me. I know I can't pursue or ask future questions, but how should I act?

First get the book and read it. It's hard to do DB is you haven't read either book.

You've had a lot going on in your lives, are either of you in counseling?