Hmmm. The Friday night text is odd. Not exactly analogous, but I used to have a boss who would call me at home on the weekends to ask questions, the answers to which couldn't be acted upon before Monday morning. He never got answers to those questions before Monday morning, but then I [i]am[/am] stubborn. wink

Not sure if you've described it here, but how exactly did you phrase your "made it clear that i need space"? Perhaps it was clearer to you than to her?

You are motivated to be resourceful and find ways to get what you need without initiating contact. She may not be thinking the same way. Maybe she thinks it would be worse to do a drive-by when you're wanting space. I mean, maybe you'll see her and think she's stalking you. Eew.


Me - 54
P - 59
Together 5 yrs
She left 4/2012