Thanks labug & vero,

It's really stating to feel like we'll be OK.

I still need to vent on here though.

Stbx gave D17 a bday card on which he'd written:

"Hope your day is wonderful and your year even better"

Yes, I'm sure it will be great - the year my dad divorced my mother and forced us out of our family home.

I know, I shouldn't let it get to me, but REALLY... how wacked out are these guys????