Dear Adniva,

Thank you so much for taking the time to write. I am really sorry about all that you have been through over the last 10 years. We are all very privileged to benefit from your experience and insight. I can talk myself around to looking at the positive side; my friends all take my side when they hear our story. It is difficult to know if that is because they are my friends or because I tell a biased story or because things are not right. I will be careful though to look at how much this is costing me emotionally after your warning.


Me 49y H 52y
T23 y
M17 y
??EA June 2012 with younger co-worker
children 8-12