Kimmerz, I think what you are feeling is very normal. I use to feel the same way about the probe idea. I think we all think about it because we want to see where their mind is at and see if they have come back to earth.
He'll respond if it's something he's interested in, such as the girls or his family, but otherwise, he'll remain quiet. Also, as you noticed, he'll not tell you when he's taken your advice. Why? Because the advice was good and he doesn't want you to know he actually did something you suggested.
The desire to probe will be tempting for quite some time. Try not to allow the desire to overtake you. Only use the probe when necessary, i.e., such as advising him of your girls or financial issues.
Enjoy your day w/your girls.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
