Have you thought about cutting contact for awhile with her family. It may help with detachment. I am almost certain they would understand if you explained why you need some time apart.
I have thought of that. I am sure they would understand, It is more so a problem with there kids. They keep wanting me over and to come over to see my fish tanks and my dog, there really good kids. But i think maybe it may be a good idea.
The mom well she also is my house cleaner every 2 weeks. she needs the money badly. I would hate to cut her off. Shoot she was in such a bad space a few months ago i put 1,000 in her savings account with out her knowing i did it. But i think she knows now. I am always that type of person helping others with out them knowing who help them. I mean shoot If I have the means to help then why not.
