Finally approaching the starting line!

[littleGTO]

eyes,

You sound like you are in such a healthy place. And the fact that other people are noticing the positive energy you are emitting is a VERY GOOD thing!

Your posts on others' threads are something I look for too. You are really starting to "give back" to others in very thoughtful ways, which I think is easier to do when you are in a stronger place.

And, DBing is about becoming that person you want to be. Unfortunately I don't want to admit this, but I think w/o the BDs we've all gotten, we wouldn't be able to have all this deep self-reflection and opportunity for growth.

Although I would really like to fast-forward through this year (in terms of moving ahead w my life & getting through the necessary stages of grief/abandonment) I realize you have to experience the pain and hardness to get to that brighter place.

I think you are getting there!