When tapestries of life get tangled in the loom.

[25yearsmlc]

Bruce,

nothing to add to what's been said. But I hope you take this in.

We do want your son to have both his parents in his life. And I know it's hard for you to live in a country where you don't know many people.

I think if you start to GAL (=Get A Life) you'll find things get a lot easier. Check the Div Remedy books for ideas.

Personally, I got in great shape, saw a T, took language classes & cooking classes,
I joined a writer's club, auditioned for local theater and did stand up comedy,

I took flying lessons, went skydiving (use caution here, b/c of your history) and
I learned to hunt and deep sea fish. Also learned to cross country ski, and even took a pottery class. (I was desparate to GAL but man, I made some life long friends!)

There's more to this list^^ but I think you get the point. Meet new people.

We have not spoken much about your GAL Things but we urge you to start GAL.

I say that b/c I know it works.

Hang in there.