KD, are you still around? I went back a re-read some of my posts and came across this was from you:
"No matter how much you indicate you loved X2 and how she was your soul mate, you once again reverted to being more committed to your own self interest than your X2."
I'm sure somewhere in the thread we may have hit on this deeper but I couldn't find it.
If you can expand I'd appreciate it. How was it that what I did, meaning disconnecting and disengaging, was being committed to my self interest?
I need to understand this. I think what you mean is that because I didn't want to deal with the stress, and chose to disengage, which in turn made my X2 very, very, sad, that I was choosing myself over her? I think that's what you mean...