Snodderly, thanks for the response. I appreciate you being here for support not just for me but for everyone on this board. As I read through the situations I can't help but wonder why some people go through such a rough time while in a MLC and others don't. I understand that events from long ago and sometimes not so long ago events can trigger it but why do some just lose their minds and others find a way to work through it without destroying everything and everyone around them? I've had some pretty rough years with parents passing, kids misbehaving etc. and I do remember going through a time when I just wanted to leave it all for some peace, quiet and calm. My childhood wasn't a piece of cake and teen years were pretty awful at times but for whatever reason I stuck with my husband and family because it was the right thing to do. It wasn't their fault that I had trouble dealing with issues. (shaking my head here)
On my way to dinner shortly. I'm a little nervous but very confident that I will say or not say the right things when I see him. A little prayer might help me hold my tongue still when necessary.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama