Thanks Sandi. Why wouldn't she feel bad? As terrible as she has been, she is still a very good and caring person. I do think she still cares about me at some level. If she does not feel bad then what else could her motives be?
I'm 40, she is 37, we have been married for seven years and together for 15. No kids.
A little background. She has always been the adult and the responsible one. We both work but she has always done the house work, paid the bills, etc. She also had always told me that I did not take any pride in our home or myself. But, as I mentioned, this has all changed in the last six weeks with my 180's. I have kept the house spotless, completed all my unfinished house projects, been working out (lost 20 lbs and put 50 on my bench press), been dressing nicely, etc.
