My W seems pretty set on going through with this, and I'm ok with that, but I want to make sure if it does happen I have no regrets for moving on. No way I could do this if we didn't have kids. Makes me wonder if I'm doing it for all the right reasons...
Spartan, continue searching for answers within yourself. It's not easy, especially when there are so many emotions at play. As we always say, if things don't work out, then at least you will know you did everything you could and will feel good about yourself.