But so did I, Bruce, and so did a lot of people here who haven't faced it yet.
We thought being married was forever whether we made that a good thing or a bad thing, and we're outraged that the response we got when it became a bad thing wasn't what we wanted it to be.
You didn't know before, that being negligent and a jerk might give her enough reason to leave you. But you know it now, and so you shouldn't waste anymore time defending your right to have been negligent and a jerk, unless that is what you hope to continue being.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
