- their brains are crazy, Swiss cheese alien brains.
- they really don't know what they want. In my H's case, he doesn't seem to know what life he wants, so he is trying to have both.
- they can't make decisions worth a sh!t.
- they are crazy.
- they know what they're doing is wrong.
- did I mention they are crazy?
It does hurt me when my H lies, but not like it used to. Plus, I've stopped taking it personally. I've seen him lie to others, know he lies to others.
Can you imagine living a life of constant secrets and lies? Talk about stress...
I think they may make themselves believe that they are not hurting us. They lie to themselves most of all.
And I get what you said to hopper about losing the rock in our lives. Thing is... I think we have to become our own rocks. We can have our support systems, but at the end of the day, it's our life and we have to take care of it.
Ps - if you do decide to run for president, I promise not to tell Fox News or any gossip mags - You have my vote
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
