I'm glad to read this, suckerpunch. I was a bit concerned. Unleashed anger can be a very scary thing and it never solves anything, it usually multiplies your problems. Being a "man" or a "woman" or maybe it's just being an Adult, means being in control of your emotions, not letting them control you.

That being said it doesn't mean you allow others to take advantage of you. You ward that off by having clear boundaries that are stated in a calm way, no vindictiveness, no judgment, no lesson being taught,no resentment.

Knowing your boundaries and being able to set and keep them is important in any R.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss