C, His mother was there for him when he was beginning to walk and she caught him when he would teeter and begin to fall. Your life w/your h is to be a wife, companion, lover and friend in order to support him. You are not your man/child's mother and are not there to catch him before he falls. He is an adult and needs to learn the hard knocks that life provides. He needs to face the consequences of his actions. The only way he will learn life's lessons is to experience them over and over until he "gets it".
Step back and watch the show from the curb. We have a sit for you and plenty of popcorn to go around.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
