PeterP, I once again woke up to soon. This has been the norm for a long time. I know what your going through. My timeline is very much the same has yours. I dont think I will ever gain an understanding of what she has done. I know how much is hurts.

I will be getting my first grandchild later this year. I woke up to the thought of my son having to explain to him or her why he has 4 sets of grandparents. Yes everyone is divorced. That in its self is very sad. The whole thing is sad. This summer my other son will be getting married. I should be happy. I am sad for everyone involved. This isnt how I thought things should be.

If you get a handle on things Peter, let me know. I like you am really struggling with my situation.