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I've been doing more of the same as I stated above and it is definitely working. This afternoon he sent me a text asking me why I'm not answering his texts or taking his phone calls. It had only been a few days since the last contact with him and now he's hurt and pissed? He tells me that he thinks that I don't want to talk to him and that I'm out having fun. Duh????? So I'd say it is working. I told him that I was sorry that he felt that way. The cake eater is actually paying attention to MY behavior.

My biggest concern right now is what to do when he comes in tomorrow night. He asked if I would be able to pick him up. I told him that I was getting together with friends for dinner and that I'd let him know. It will take a train, a boat and a 2 mile walk (all uphill) to get home....dragging a suitcase no less! LOL! So what do you think? I thought I'd offer to pick him up (I'll be driving right by the airport on my way home) if he wanted to wait till I'm finished with my evening. Sort of putting the ball in his court. He can take it or leave it, right? Or is that being too accomodating? Thoughts, other ideas?