I see all good signs. As AS says, keep expectations low. Have a nice dinner and keep it light. No talk of past hurts/angers/resentments. Don't worry about if he puts his ring on or not. You making that gesture is nice, but also telling him you are committed to trying. It is okay to have solitude in your M too. I think that is the mistake a lot of us made, not balancing our own GLA's (me time) with our M's/family commitments.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.