A mutual friend of ours phoned me saying that she thought there was something I needed to know. Now, I am keeping in mind that this is 3rd party info, and nothing that I didn't expect hearing, but it bothered me just the same.
This friend of ours and my wife met for dinner. There was no talk about our marriage or me. When Friend was getting ready to leave, she asked (pursued I guess, even though it shouldn't reflect on me), "so have you been consiering getting back together at all"? My wife apparently said, "Nope. I am moving forward and not looking back. If he would have made these changes 5 years ago maybe, but it is too late now. My heart is completely closed off to him". That is exactly what she has been stating since day one. However, she also went on to say that she was going to take her insurance test in Feb. and she would be moving out by June when she was financially secure. She said she would have everything in place to move on by then. Then, she expressed the desire to buy a town house. She told me that before as well, which is ASSININE. I had to co-sign on her car loan for crying out loud. How does she think she will finance a 200k mortgage?....anyway....makes me really mad that she is spewing this nonsense. Tonight she is out on a 2 day "birthday party weekend", staying in a hotel, clubbing, fancy dinner. I on the other hand had to check my bank account before buying groceries. The fact that she shoehorned some of our money away before leaving has me furious. SHE should be the one without two nickles to rub together! I have been trying to turn my attitude around all night with no luck.....grrrrr
