Spartan they all seem set on going through with it .
Do you want to save your marriage ?
Gal Work on yourself . Counsel, books , workshops
Do not discuss D. Let her do the work.
Why move out? Then you don't see your kids. Stay and ignore her. DO not react. Tell her you don't condone or support divorce. She has the free will to do what she wants and walk away. Do it in a calm manner.
You need to detach and gal. FOR you. Work on you not to WIN her back for you.
I've been fighting for my marriage for 4 years. We've been in silence since July and we made up this week. It can get better
