Bright: I read your first post, and I have some feedback, since I was in a similar sitch in Jan of last year. 1. First, you said you wanted to end your M about 4 years ago. I assume you want to save it now. That's the goal. Think what happened 4 yrs ago and now (specifics) and what you could do to change those things. 2. Avoid mind reading. He said he's done, but you don't know the real truth. If you DB, at least you will know you did everything you could to save your M, and you will be growing as a person too. 3. The moodiness might mean an A has been going on. Sorry to say this, and I hope it's not true, but that is common behavior of S's who have someone else "waiting in the wings." He gets very defensive when you ask about his calls, etc. It makes me wonder. 4. But regardless of whether there is a current A or not, you may still have a chance bc of the extra time you have before any D papers are filed. 5. GAL--very important. 6. Write down short term goals. 7. Know we're here for you. ((((((((((()))))))))))
