I know you are already on your weekend now, but I'll respond anyway. Hope you enjoy it!
Originally Posted By: AM2012
Breakdown, did you see a difference after RetroV? I am definitely prepared to work and hope that H will as well. do you know what triggered you W to say that this past weekend? Was this something that you were shocked by or did you feel that this was inevitable?
Yeah, I think retrouv helped....even though W said she didn't buy into all of it, she said the communication pieces were useful. She said she was more able to discuss her feelings afterward.
I think our big problem was that I had huge expectations, and based on what she wrote and shared, I thought she was going about it half-assed, which just pissed me off. I was hoping she'd forgive me during that weekend, but she didn't. I was hoping she'd choose to love me, but she didn't. That's why I say focus on you and keep your expectations in check...everyone's pace is different.
For this past weekend, the trigger was our first court date Monday. W filed in Sept after a big fight and as awesome as I thought things had been over the last few months, the court date forced a discussion about D and M which W has a difficult time with.
