Re. Poss Dealing with OM

[LJC]

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OMG made a hash of things earlier. I have the kids tomoz (19th) and have a busy day planned (not sure if I've already said this? I can't see my posts as I'm a newbie hence a delay) anyway when I drop kids of at 18:00 I'm jumping in the car to goto the casino and staying in the hotel there with some family and friends. W knows this as she is close to a certain few family members and they have told her I'm going. I received a text from W saying why don't you drop kids of at 16:00 and get a lift with these family members?

Now instead of me politely texting back saying "Thanks for the offer but due to a number of reasons I can't thank you for the offer" I text W a huge text detailing why I can't because of commitments the next day! Although in the big text I did say I cherish my time with my kids and I didn't want to cut short my access time for personal gain, which the old selfish me would have quite happily done before we split. Hopefully she will see that bit as a 180?

Side note I'm a bit annoyed my replies etc aren't being posted sooner. Is that something to do with me being in England?

TY