in my most recent post to you I said, again, that this will take TIME. So you ask us, again, "how to soften her heart"?
We have all said the same thing. Usually someone in your shoes will get conflicting advice, but you don't.
You get almost totally similar advice from all of us. We say to
1) be there for your son, That means learning all about HIM and kids his age. (What steps have done to puruse this goal?)---
As I've asked before, repeatedly, do you know OTHER people with little ones?Someday you'll be able to arrange play dates w/them, and meanwhile, ask THEM questions if you don't want to ask your wife every thing.
2) Be consistent with the changes you are showing, and give them
3) TIME...a lot of it, way way more than YOU think is "necessary". I said once a "minimum of 90 days" and your reply was "by Christmas"...
Can you see now, that at a minimum, 90 days is just to show that A change is happening. It takes MORE time to show that it might be a lasting change...
What's confusing you in this? Seriously, we have no guarantees. None of us ever have.
But UNLIKE most people here, you have gotten consistently similiar advice, from both men and women here, those who have reconciled and those who have not... Why not take our advice? And for more than a few days. Seriously...at least let us know you did read our posts b/c when you repeat the SAME question a few days later, it makes me wonder.
Show interest in your son FOR HIS SAKE and then, keep doing that...
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