I spoke to another lawyer who much better and he told me he is a bit anal about asking questions and getting answers. He was better to talk to and he told me to say nothing about any thing I know to h. I meet with him tomorrow. He said sounds like you're ready to file and I said yes I am. There was a lot of good info on his website re rights etc. he said he was sorry to hear about my sitch but he was going to help. Called me within 5 min of leaving a message . The initial cost is 3000. Then he's going to ask judge for h to pay cud I don't have a pot to piss in. Once I file he has to continue to pay bills.