My W seems pretty set on going through with this, and I'm ok with that, but I want to make sure if it does happen I have no regrets for moving on.No way I could do this if we didn't have kids. Makes me wonder if I'm doing it for all the right reasons...
To me, those both go hand in hand. Yes, I think kids up the ante, but regardless, I want to make sure I have no regrets looking back. I hate hearing my parents say crap like "we'd have been married 40 years if we had any sense."
I am just focused on "being a H only a fool would leave" and if I get to that point and W still wants out, well that's her deal. I think that's my internal time table....when I feel like I have become that guy.
