Yup, I'm with you. What good would it do? I only see bad coming from it. I have my file if I ever need it legally, but that's about it. Kind of sad this last one is married with a child.

What do you think about the Oedipus Complex in MLC? All these women are older than him. Maybe easier? They're more vulnerable and easier for him to conquer without commitment? Or is there a reason he would be going for old women and act appalled by men who go for much younger women?

As I've said before, likely that both his parents were very messed up, emotionally unavailable during his childhood. Likely that he witnessed his maternal grandmother abusing his mother as a young child, physically and emotionally. I feel like he has always had this white-knight mentality when it comes to women. He goes for women who would be more vulnerable, over-weight, older, lonely, etc. He feels I am way above him.


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17