Does anyone think these are positive "baby steps?'
They all sound good for sure. But like I said before, just celebrate them internally and continue with what works
Don't be surprised if there are backslides on H's part too, he will cycle between baby steps and distancing. Enjoy the baby steps and don't get too upset over the backslides, just expect them and recognize them when they happen and do your best to act "as if" everything is fine.