suckerpunch , thank you for replying to me. Normally, I would go to our vacation home to stay there (this is like our second home), but this time I’m going with my friend and will stay at her place. You made a valid point, that I’m not completely detached yet. I feel that I’m getting there, but sometimes I have these moments when I feel afraid to even interact with my H. I actually don’t mean that I want to show him new me. I am just trying to understand how to apply DB principles here, in terms of maintaining some kind of contact and not completely going dark. I completely agree that I need to feel confident before I can have any kind of contact. Though, I think that when I feel confident and completely detached, I will not want him back. Sorry, I fell that I have a bit of a mess in my head…
I like the idea that it will make it more intriguing if I just go there and do not care if he is there. It gives me some perspective.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
