Same here. Sorry for the sickness in the family.. Hopefully it's short-lived.
Yep, your H is trying to annoy you into doing what he thinks he wants. You feel the conflict when he gets it and doesn't like it or wants more. Either way, he won't be satisfied.
This is part of what I was saying before - he's going to try. You have to recognize that and recognize he can't keep it forever. You seem to and that's good. You know what he'll try to do and is trying to do. And you are standing up to him. Just keep an eye out for the kids to be sure before you act it is in their best interest. You'll be tested, but don't worry. It won't last forever even if it seems longer than you want. And you're doing great.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
