Hey all,
It has been a long while since I have been on the boards (like...a year and 1/2 or more).
Sometimes, you just need to break away and live.

Well I am here to update and let you all know that My H and I have been doing great. We celebrated our 12year of Marriage last august, We have been remodeling our home (slowly -but surely), and we are trying to have kids.

I am happy, healthy, and a much different person than I was 5 years ago when I first found myself here on the boards.

I never thought I would be happy again...It has taken years of struggles and hard work and hardship - But, I do believe I am one of the lucky ones.

My Sitch involves MLC/Other women/Alcoholic behaviors...that the boards, Alanon and several books all helped me to cope with and overcome. I am extremely greatful.

I will never be perfect and never will my H be or Our M; however, we are living and growing and moving forward.

I hope your all hanging in there and doing well.
TTYL,
TIGGER