Shortly after the initial BD we did sit down paper and pencil and looked at everything. Yikes! wink. Also, she allegedly met with an L, and they narrowed everything down to the penny for us / her and how little $ she would have.
So we can do this aspect w/o a 3rd party. We were / are able to pretty much stay on track.

The 2 main things that she has stated throughout the sich in terms of money and anger is 1. I have introduced / afforded her a better life than she ever managed (financially compared to where she came from - our meager savings is more than her parents ever had); and then she won't be able to continue the same lifestyle whereas I will be able to stay the same for the most part. 2. W thinks I will use $ to get what I want legally and be "vindictive". I've tried to reassure her that what we do will be between us and what we have / don't have. I'm not going to cash in stock / accept $ from my parents.
And yes, I can easily put myself in her shoes regarding the whole money scenario. Despite knowing what $ I grew up with (my grandfather was very well off / trickle down to my parents), I have generally always been humble. In my early adulthood, I quickly realized $ doesn't define how good someone is based on how much they do or do not have. W knows this.

So I last night, I finished working out / showered and came out for a drink to see all the lights off. Not even a "goodnight" from W. No biggie. This am, W told me she would be unreachable due to work stuff. "ok". Not like I was going to call / text or her anything. Normally haven't, so that was a little strange. The she sends me a few chit chatty texts. The most interesting was her last text that said "Sometimes I miss our old life, looking forward to coming home watching a movie and sharing a bottle of wine.". My internal response...WTF?
My actual response, "Yes we did have some good times, including the chick flicks that made us each teary eyed :)".

Guessing it is more of the "pursuit / pull back dance" and minor second guessing of the sich / her outwardly mourning the death of our M.