oh MANNNNNN - SAY IT AINT SO - i did it all wrong - yet again.
I thought being pleasant but "walking away" was good thing. i didn't hang up on him- he got to say goodbye & i hung up. cripes- i swear i will never get all this darn strategy in my head.
are you saying call him today and act like it's OKAY? i could force myself if i had to-
geeeez- here's me thinking i'm being neutral-ish but not overtly friendly- instead i've balled it up yet again. oh well
HEY WAIT - can'T we say it's ME DOING a 180? at least??? i mean, in past it is ALWAYS me , in every instance apologizing, putting on good spin, overlooking, makng it pleasant, STAYING ON PHONE - etc.
can't i even get partial credit for NOT acting the same as i ALWAYS act????? being strong enough to get off and walk away.? isn't that SOMETING HERE? OLD ME would "engage" in conversation, etc. etc etc - this in charge me just had some backbone and "said no" (well - imho)
can i get an amen? oh well- i'm going to go eat some choclate and do a bit of work- do my hair - get busy.
ANYBODY OUT THERE think it was something other than poor strategy?
