Well thank God, our insurance actually was not cancelled. What happened was the group # changed, so when I logged into the website, it said our coverage had been terminated which freaked me out of course. I immediately texted, phoned and emailed H telling him it was cancelled and to please handle immediately, but then I noticed something on the site that said it may be showing as cancelled if our group # changed.

So, I wasn't angry at H, no accusations, no blaming, just "please handle this immediately." As soon as we figured out the problem he sent me the new #s and I was able to verify that we were fine. He actually said later on the phone that he was sorry for not catching that. He got a new card in the mail but one didn't come for me, so I had no idea the numbers changed.

Anyway, he said he was looking forward to coming home tomorrow. I am not really looking forward to him coming home tomorrow, but I didn't tell him that. He doesn't love traveling for work and always ends up nostalgic for home. We'll see what tomorrow and the weekend brings. I feel very uninvested at the moment.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page