My point also was that your wife may not want to rehash things that some ACOAs are fine rehashing.
IT just does not help everyone the same way. I found once I had said my peace and heard that there were many others in my situation,
that was enough for me.
I didn't go for another few years and then when a new issue came up, I asked the group for their suggestions and they were helpful.
I also did not want to hang onto my pain. I released it and it was freeing.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
