We each know the stark reality of how D will greatly impact us financially. Originally she had many strengths that I did not. I'm a quick learner on practical things. I was / am a hell of a "manny". Still working on cooking. She's got me there. . I want her involved in the process so that she will have the info and ability to take care of herself / the kids when / if the D is filed and finalized.
For the most part I think I can be respectful, she on the other hand will may not due to certain resources I / my family have. She's already on a few occassions yelled at me for coming from a more financially secure lifestyle. Not rich by any means, but comparatively speaking much better off than her family.
. 
