Well here I am again with the thought that my detaching is going well. I have been able to talk with her (small talk) without having any thoughts or feelings in the back of my mind. Previously I had trouble talking with her because my mind would wonder to our R, mind reading, etc. The down side is she has been sleeping in another room all week but just now she came in our room and kissed me goodnight (a real kiss on the lips, not the " I love my family member kiss" on the cheek). SO FREAKING CONFUSING! We have been around each other more recently which she seems fine with. GALing tomorrow night with my girls which they are so excited about ( as am I). Good luck to all and thanks for all of the support and information.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
