Lawyers usually come in high and then negotiate down. Don't get all twisted about this. Just let things unfold. You are early in the process.

You called her when this morning I thought you said you were going to not get into those convos.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss