I have to say the Darth Vader mask is interesting but not sexy. Neither is my h's snoring though. I tend to shove him gently to make him shift but now I wear an IPOD to blast out his noise so I can remain in our bed and I think I'm losing some hearing...yikes!
HE had a surgery and it did not help, fyi.
ANyhow, my h wasn't the type to go to EE either. But he did AFTER I went and came back and he seemed to be "watching" me for a few months. My changes lasted...so he went
I am not saying your wife will go to EE or to a couples weekend...ever...
I am saying you are doing what YOU can, to make that happen. WHICH is to say --- you are going, and you are working on you.
That is truly ALL you can do. Bravo! and as for the other events happening in your life, take things easy but hey,
they're positive for sure. She will wonder if you revert and she may see "the OLD you" in any remotely similar behavior so take nothing for granted. But enjoy the present...it's good stuff.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016