Re. Poss Dealing with OM

[LJC]

Thanks for the replies AS and D77. It's great that you have replied as I've seen you offer great advice to others which I have used also.

I see W weekly when I go round to pick kids up and I'm pleasant enough, I don't hang around and as soon as kids come out I'm off before any conv can be made but by me doing that and not asking 'things' I feel as if I'm coming across a little cold(?) all I do is say Hi, you ok? Or how you doing? And I just think is what I'm doing making us drift further apart?

I didn't mention our R time scale. Been together 12 years this Saturday Married for 4.5 years so we have a lot of history together. Ref Dating Anniv should I do/get anything? Every year she would say oh Do you know what today is!

It seems weird Journalling after being in back ground for so long. Before I knew I could find answer somewhere on the boards maybe I just wanted to vent my Sitch?

Joined Meetup.com yest and searched for any decent groups, it seems all the best ones are in London which is a 35min train journey on the high speed network. My sister live in north London so i could always stay at hers and get the tube in but the thought of going to a meet alone scares the life out of me!

Didn't expect post to be this long sorry! Thanks for your support