AS - I was just replying to your thread saying that you were probably right when lawyer called me. Here's that update:
My L contacted hers this morning to inquire about expediting the custody agreement before our next court date to allow for a potential S. Her lawyer responded and said they now propose long term that she gets full custody through the school year with me getting every other weekend only. During summer I would pick up the Wednesday nights. I was completely floored because I never in a million years thought my W would be capable of using the kids against me. This is 100% her just trying to hurt me and is completely counter to what we discussed a few days ago or her idea of us remaining friends after. I called W to ask what was going on and she acted like she hadn't talked with her L today. Said she sent her an e-mail last night but never mentioned anything like that. I don't know if I believe her or not, I can't imagine a L sending that w/o their clients permission and some things she said sounded like lawyer talk and not her normal vocabulary. We talked a little more and I asked her if she really believed this is what's best for kids and she didn't answer. I told her again that I want 50/50 everything because that seems the fairest but I would even go to the 6/8 nights with kids because it did make sense for them to not have to swap houses every other Thursday. I also reiterated to her that I didn't want one of those ugly D's because the biggest losers are the kids. I hope she comes to her senses so we don't spend the next year in court. She is so far away from the woman I remember.
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