Still walking the path to my own happiness

[FloydMan]

Yes, unsettled, but not angry. My W did this also 2x and also the mortgage and several bills. She is a bank manager and since our M over 17 years ago she was the one who wanted to take on these tasks....seriously. Well when I asked her about the insurance she yelled back, "well why didn’t you!!!???". May e it was my approach, I don't know but probably. Either way I did not like the response but either way there is a point there. If it involves me and my insurance and or financials or anything, I should double check and collaborate. Remember, you BOTH are thinking about many, many things during a stressful time. This is likely an oversight so give benefit of the doubt. He may be without insurance too. Is this something you can look after while he is gone? Think solutions, not problems or confrontation as per MWD. Collaborate. His “goodwill” should still be recognized and appreciated, not punished. He was thinking of YOU, not administration.