"Me: No, you made me text all those times I wanted to talk to you on the phone or in person."
You definitely shouldn't have done this. Makes you sound like a vindictive @$$. You are so above that.
Yes, right after I sent it I realized it was a HUGE mistake. I should have just kept to the attitude of "no, I'm at work which doesn't allow us to have good conversations on the phone".
I do hate that I texted that part at all b/c it does just come off as vindictive. There's no way of recovering from it now, I just have to accept I made a mistake on that one.
What killed me with this was all the fighting to get me on the phone when she could've just started with a text, "Have you seen *oldest kids* glasses?" Me, "No, haven't seen them in awhile." End of conversation.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln