Okay, so where is the "opening up" part? That he feels like he always gives in because I'm hard-headed? Cause I have a whole list of those things. He's pretty good about telling me the many, many ways that I make him feel bad, and pointing out the many flaws in my character. What I don't have is any reflection on what I do that makes him feel or think that way. How do I do a 180 when I don't know what I'm doing wrong in the first place?
