Sexless marriage. H Left. Now retrouvaille in 3wks

[FloydMan]

I'll be thinking and praying for both of you and your spouses this weekend AM and AS.
On the jealous/selfish side I'll also pray that my W would at least give this an opportuniity.

Thanks for the tips on 180. I think I have been too ignoring, but mostly as response and conditioning to being ignored. Her attitude and demannds of not wanting me to know where she is or when she will be home even if related to kids. I have not had the time of day from her in 8 months and just sourness and this morning W emails me to know what time I will be home so she could make an appointment on time. I ignored it and did not respond as my inital thought was to be sarcastic, so I just left it. I should note that I did give her this information last night and told the kids, but I could tell she was not paying attention. I know in my heart I did not create this dynamic between us, but now I am contributing to it. My normal response would have been to give her explicit details and time so it is a 180, but maybe a little rude and spiteful because that is what I get. Taster of her own medicine but not sure if that is good, bad or indifferent.