My girlfriend wants to go to the place where our vacation home is. She has a house there too. I’m considering going this Friday with her. This means that I will be seeing our common friends there, who are also the friends of my girlfriend. I’m not sure if I should stop by our vacation home to get some stuff, or I should stay away, since my H is there. I’m feeling pretty confident about myself; I think I will be able to interact with him just fine.

Another question that I keep asking myself is if I should tell my friend there that I know that my H is in communication with her relative.

Any advice would be appreciated, please.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state