You'll be fine! Take a deep breath and go in with zero expectations. Do not go in expecting this to fix everything because you will unintentionally be applying pressure to your H and it will just lead to disappointment. Look at it as a way to improve communications between the two of you, nothing more. Some people have still ended up divorced after RetroV, but even they said they felt it was beneficial. Our session starts tomorrow as well, and what I describe above is exactly my attitude about it going in.
