Try not to mind read, it is what it is. If she says she's uneasy, you need to let her know that you get that. Could you suggest that you work through the finances with a third party if she's uneasy?
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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss