Thx LA. Just being honest on here. It is a heck of a lot easier to remain calm when your W stops rejecting you. I KNOW you try to remain calm during rejection but it is obviously apparent that my W has continued to stop rejecting me.
I went out to eat with college friends last night. It was very nice. W even joked with me about it.
My W continues to goto a chiropracteur on her own addressing some of her medical issues. She continues to open up to me about them and instead of trying to fix her I just ask her what she needs and I am here for her. If I slip at all I tend to retract and say "I dont' know, I'm not a doctor"
Lets just say me and W "made up" last night.
I'm continuing to try to multiply the positives. I plan on being a regular at ACOA. I am attending EE in February. Even though things are good I need to continue to work on myself. Last time things were good it quickly when back to same old marriage because I did not GAL (even though KD told me too) and I didn't work on me at all.
My hopes is W would consider a couples weekend but her personality isn't typically this type.
Right now I am enjoying everything.
I slept back in the master bedroom last night. This included 2 kids and a dog on the bed. Sort wanted to go to spare room after 2 hours being in there lol. Thx god for king size beds.
On a positive note my surgery has removed my obnoxious snoring and reduced my apnea. This is HUGE. I can actually lay next to my wife. Haven't been able to do this in 10 years. Picture that. Can't snuggle next to your wife without wearing a dark vador type embarassing mask.
